An unexpected gift – Children after cancer

Rajasinghe Foundation for Vascular Research and Education:

Today marks the global launch of the United Nations Population Fund’s flagship report ‘State of World Population’.
This year’s report features the story of a resilient Sri Lankan woman and her miracle baby.
We hope Shara’s story will inspire many young women around the world to reach their fullest potential.

SOURCE: unfpa.org/swop-2019 pages 151-152

Sri Lanka: an unexpected gift—children after cancer


Ranasinghe’s early life was tumultuous. Her parents had divorced and the court stipulated that she, a single child, live with her father because he had financial stability and her mother did not.
“My mother was a brilliant child, but she never went beyond secondary school, and she married and had a child by 20,” Shara says.

After her father remarried, Shara suffered at the hands of a stepmother, who beat her at times.

When her own mother asked what had happened, she would make up excuses like she had fallen on the stairs, not wanting to stir up more concern and anger. Despite her unhappy childhood, Shara emerged with an independent and resilient spirit. After moving to Malaysia to pursue a university degree, she began to thrive until in her final year of studies she was diagnosed with cancer. She told her boyfriend that he really ought to leave her, but he refused, standing by her side through gruelling rounds of chemotherapy and radiation.

My mother was a brillant child, but she never went beyond secondary school, and she married and had a child by 20.

When it was over, the doctors said there was a low to zero probability that she would ever bear children.

At one point, she had been asked if she wanted to preserve her eggs, but the subject came up in front of her father and felt too uncomfortable for discussion.

She and her boyfriend decided to marry anyway, and soon after she found she was pregnant. “The stick turning positive was the best thing that ever happened in my life,” she confides Two more children have followed since then, and Shara has moved to Australia to pursue advanced degrees, aiming for a doctorate in communications with cancer patients. While she always wanted many offspring, each pregnancy poses some risk to her fragile health.

Financially, too, three feels like the right number. While Australia has subsidized childcare, she and her husband have worried about being away from their small children and juggled their work so that one parent could always be home with them.

At one point, Shara moved ahead in her teaching career and became the main family breadwinner, while her husband took time off from being an engineer to work flexible hours preparing food in cafes. More recently, his parents have come to live with the couple, and her husband has gone back to engineering.

In the world around her, she sees a growing openness, with women finally moving into leadership positions at her university, and a boy at her daughter’s school who has, for the first time, asked to be treated as a girl. Her first “miracle” daughter is now approaching 10, a talented, sensitive child. “I want her to be very strong,” Shara says.

“I hope she does not encounter discrimination, but there are still so many inequalities.”

She counts Australia as further ahead in understanding a changing world, compared to Sri Lanka, where she says the majority of people retain deeply conservative expectations of women. She enjoys the staunch support of her parents in making choices to pursue her dreams. But, she says, “my country has a few more years to go. I am hopeful that future generations will be born into a Sri Lanka that fosters equal opportunities for all.”

#SWOP19, #ICPD25, #UnfinishedBusiness

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Launching state of the art Philips Veradius Unity mobile imaging and Excimer Laser for treatment of threatened limbs

The Vascular Group of Naples Office Based Lab (OBL) launches state of the art Philips Veradius Unity mobile imaging and Excimer Laser for treatment of threatened limbs.
With over 17 years of vascular and endovascular surgery experience, we are extending complex therapies into the office outpatient setting to allow for increased safety, faster recovery, and higher satisfaction!

Philips Veradius Unity mobile imaging and Excimer Laser for treatment of threatened-limbs vascular surgery

 

Proud to share our educational support of the next generation of medical students

Rajasinghe Foundation for Vascular Research and Education Foundarion proud to support the next generation of physicians through scholarships at Duke University School of Medicine.

Here is a testimonial we would like to share

“My name is Christopher Calixte and I want personally thank you for the Rajasinghe Vascular Research scholarship I received recently. This means a lot to me especially considering my humble upbringing. I was born in Flatbush, Brooklyn that was riddled with crime and socioeconomic distress. Thankfully I have two loving parents whom are immigrants from Haiti that always reminded that my education should be my top priority. Though education always came first I balanced it with sports all the way through high school.”

 

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We are very happy to provide this kind of impact by bringing educational support to the next generation of medical students.

Help to change lives for the better, forever! Support Rally For Littles

Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Sun Coast – Rally for Littles is an event that will take place this December 15th, 2018.

Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Sun Coast holds itself accountable for children in its program to achieve measurable outcomes, such as educational success; avoidance of risky behaviors; and higher aspirations, greater confidence and better relationships. The organization provides children facing adversity, often those of single or low-income households or families with strong and enduring, professionally supported one-to-one mentoring relationships that change their lives for the better, forever.

 

You can help by voting (with a donation) for your favorite car.

The order of cars in the rally will be determined by your donations.

Dr. Hiranya Rajasinghe will be driving car number 113. A magnificent Grey Ferrari 488 GTB.

You can support his car by making your donation on this link:

https://one.bidpal.net/rally4littles/browse/donation(details:item/15)

Come out for a great day of food, exotic cars, silent auction and prizes at our Rally For Littles.

Announcing The Manora Elizabeth Panthiage Jayatilleke Fund at Yale University

In memory of Manora Elizabeth Jayatilleke, 1942 – 2018

1942 – 2018, Mrs. Manora Elizabeth Jayatilleke

 

The Rajasinghe Vascular Research and Education Foundation announces the establishment of the Manora Elizabeth Panthiage Jayatilleke Fund at Yale University to help support undergraduate science research particularly for disadvantaged minorities and women as part of the STARS Fellowship Program.

You can check more abouth the program here: https://science.yalecollege.yale.edu/stars

Manora Elizabeth Jayatilleke was a career woman scientist, mentor, and loving mother.

She earned her Bachelor of Science degree at University of Ceylon, Colombo (Sri Lanka) and Masters in Science at Columbia University, New York City (USA).

Her research focused on the biochemistry of liver and alcohol disease at the Bronx VA Hospital, Mount Sinai School of Medicine for over 25 years. She is survived by her three children Arundathi Jayatilleke MD, Ruwan Jayatilleke, and Hiranya A. Rajasinghe MD who are the donors of the endowed fellowship.

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